The story: Before I arrived at college, I found a few people who were from the same city as me. Out of them there was a girl, S, that I was attracted to. I was extra nice to her during my first week out here and I made it very obvious. After my first week of getting here I made out with a different girl, D, because I felt like whatever I felt for S was very superficial and I'd rather be with someone who was into me than pathetically keep on trying to get someone that wasn't into me. Following this line of thought, after we first made out, D asked me how it'd work because I liked S and I told her that "I'm choosing to be here with you right now.". Now there's another person from my city, N, that we only met once we got here, and she integrated herself into the friend group. N noticed that I liked S, and constantly warned me not to go for S because that'd mean "my friend group will fall apart and I don't want to either of you to get in a situat...